It was a bit difficult getting a caption for this short article, so pardon me if it sounds funny lol, because really it is a couple of short gist/message in one. Anyway, my darling husband surprised me with a pre-val’s gift and since it was the first time I (personally) will see anyone pull the “pre-val’s gift” *stunt* I decided to post it on Facebook to give some guys hints on creativity and thoughtfulness, bearing in mind that I had written an article not too long ago titled “Love is not cheap” click here to read.
While that was on, two friends decided to come inbox lol! “Titi, why did you post about your pre-val’s gift on Facebook”, “you’re not the only one who got a gift “,lol “Me, I’m a private person and I won’t post anything about my husband and I on social media” etc lol!! Well………
We can not all be the same haha..some of us don’t care really, we don’t worry about all these details, it’s not a big deal at all. It’s all fun to us. We operate from a “free mind” perspective. So be private, we will be public. Be quiet, we will be playful. Be an observer, we will be players. The truth is, we all cannot be the same.
The reason(motive) why I do things is really what matters to me and that is what should matter to you too. I always want anything good in my life to serve as inspiration or guidance to someone else. I am sure there are one or two guys out there who saw my pre-val’s gift post and thought…”I should actually be more creative next Valentine’s day” or “I should actually surprise my woman more often” “I need to be more thoughtful like Temi”(he really is *wink*)..that was my motive for real, to ginger the guys.
Anyway, Valentine or no Valentine; Pre-Val or no Pre-Val; We cannot all be the same. If we were all quiet, what a boring world it would’ve been 🙂 If we were all noisy, what a loud world it would’ve be. If we were all “private”, social media will not exist. LOL! Below are pictures of the D-day’s gift exchange. I tried to be private with the actual brands of the gifts, so I don’t get more inbox messages, but I’m public enough to say it is a wristwatch and a perfume.We will do the outing later in the day????. Don’t worry I will be private next year (if it’s not a car)
And, incase you missed the pre-val’s post and the gift, peruse and read it below,it was simple…
“Valentine is in three days time
Temi bought Titi a pre-Val’s gift
It’s a small box of chocolate with a love letter.
Temi is a thoughtful guy
(To all them guys out there)…
Be like Temi❤????????????????”
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY TO ALL MY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE.
LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING…